Flirting.. a big no!

So I was talking to an old friend from India and was quite surprised to hear when he casually mentioned that how flirting is so common in his work place. He called it as "harmless flirting".. I thought about it for some time and said " flirting is flirting, there is no difference between harmful or harmless". I strongly believe in none and would like my partner to follow the same.

I mean every person has its own definitions and limitations for flirting but what ever I know from my experience is that if you are dating anyone, married or just engaged; you have no right to flirt around with anyone. It is just not cool...

I am strongly against flirting esp. when you are committed someone because it is not so easy as it sounds. Casual flirting or a serious one is the same thing, you are definitely attracted to the other person and you hold no inhibitions in saying whats on your mind. I think people find it more fun, as it is definitely very subtle, gives you a hormonal rush and becomes part of your unconscious mind!